The way we were: (left to right) a baby Angela Epstein, the writer aged seven, and on her wedding day at Heaton Park synagogue in 1990[Missing Credit] Little wonder, then, that 12 months on from that harrowing day, it remains almost dizzying to reconcile Heaton Park, where children once collected conkers, with the place where Jihad Al-Shamie committed murder shouting “Allahu Akbar!’ as he tried to bludgeon his way into Heaton Park shul. So how to mark the Day of Atonement knowing it also marks the yahrzeit of those who were slain? Well, with a sense of trepidation, particularly now...