We have a family WhatsApp group that we tend to use for things that aren’t particularly serious – it’s just for birthdays, our children’s news, that kind of thing. But the horror of October 7 just wasn’t mentioned, and that felt extraordinary. Even now, with everything that has happened since, the silence continues. And I remain shocked. On a call with one of my parents, soon after the attacks, I said, “I don’t understand the silence – maybe you and the family don’t feel any connection?” And the reply was, “At some point we’ve got to sit down and talk...