I'm going to share some unvarnished and uncomfortable truths—views many Black people in your life may never say to your face but quietly believe about you and your choices. While unsaid, these thoughts are stored away as we draw conclusions about your character and if we'll ever truly trust you. And by "you," I mean white people. First, let me clarify a critical point: I speak for myself. I do not and cannot speak for all Black people. We have divergent opinions and aren't monolithic. All white people do something highly offensive, harmful, or eyebrow-raising at some point. This is...