Dear Miriam, During the first two High Holiday seasons of the pandemic, it wasn’t safe or feasible to get together for the big dinners that everyone in my family was used to. This year, it feels like a safe enough option, but one I’ve lost interest in. If my entire extended family gets together (something they generally seem excited about), should I attend even though I don’t really want to? If not, what’s the best way to bow out gracefully? Signed, Rosh Hashanah RSVP Dear RSVP, The past two years have provided a myriad of excuses to get out of...