Dear Miriam, I just started dating someone I really like. There’s one problem, though, which is that when we go out, she wears a perfume that I really don’t like. Is there any way I can ask her not to wear it? Signed, Awkward Aroma Dear Awkward, I’m so glad you’ve found someone whose company you are enjoying! Much dating advice has been written about how you can’t change a person and instead have to accept them for who they are (or stop dating them), but I think you still have a chance. Your maybe-girlfriend’s choice of scent likely doesn’t...